A guide to different approaches to love, presence, intimacy, and shared practice.
To nurture a relationship that continues to inspire us, we need quality time together. Time to truly see each other, to listen, and to share what lives in our hearts but so often goes unspoken. These moments help us care for our connection and keep its spark alive.
For your next holiday, consider exploring Tantra together: discovering somewhere new while sharing a meaningful experience, deepening your intimacy, and making space for love.
A Tantra retreat offers an opportunity for you and your beloved to step away from responsibilities and everyday routines. It gives you time to reconnect with yourself, as well as dedicated time to explore, play, and simply be together.
Each school approaches Tantra differently. Some programmes centre on meditation and emotional connection, while others place greater emphasis on sexuality, touch, or relationship practices. Understanding these differences can help you choose an experience that feels right for both of you.
For couples wondering where to explore Tantra together, the options below range from residential group programmes to private experiences tailored to your relationship.
How we selected these options
This guide is published by Tantra School of Love, and includes our own programme. The ten entries are an editorial selection based on organisers’ published information, not an independent quality ranking or an account of attending every retreat. Their numbering is for navigation.
We selected programmes that explicitly welcome couples and offer a recognisable focus on Tantra, intimacy, or conscious relating. The descriptions highlight differences in format, practices, privacy, and practical arrangements. Please check details of each organization’s website before making bookings to ensure accuracy.
Compare the options
| Programme | Location advertised | Format | Focus to explore |
|---|---|---|---|
| Tantra School of Love: True Nature of Love | Thailand, Netherlands, Guatemala, Portugal, Costa Rica, Belgium, China | Residential; couples and individuals | A holistic, heart-centred journey through presence, intimacy, and sacred love-making, deepening connection with yourself and each other. |
| Tantra Essence: Soulmate Level 1 | Bali, Indonesia | Residential; couples | A structured, multi-level journey exploring relationships as a shared spiritual practice. |
| The Making Love Retreat | Switzerland | Residential; couples | Conscious sexuality and the art of slow sex, with an emphasis on presence and awareness. |
| Tantra School of Love – Conscious Couples Weekend | Amsterdam, Netherlands | Couples-only, two-day workshop; accommodation and meals separate | Heart-centred connection, conscious communication, intimacy, and practical rituals to nurture love in everyday life. |
| The Tantric Couple – Couples Tantra Weekends | Glastonbury, UK | Couples-only weekend retreats; accommodation separate | Conscious touch, sensuality, and exploring intimacy through Tantra. |
| Earth Tantra: The Art of Loving | Colorado, USA | Couples weekend; lodging separate | Deepening connection with your partner, the Earth, and spirit through nature-based Tantra practices. |
| OzTantra: Ultimate Couples Getaway | Australian locations by arrangement | Private; lodging separate | Tailored relationship and intimacy coaching |
| Tantra Ritual: Sacred Union | Tulum, Mexico | Residential; couples | Conscious touch and Tantra massage, exploring sensuality, energy awareness, and intimacy through giving and receiving. |
| Temple of Bliss: customised retreats | California and other US locations | Private/customised | Tantra yoga and ritual bodywork |
| Sex Reimagined: couples retreat | California, USA | Three-day programme; lodging separate | Intimate touch and sexuality education |
These focus descriptions are our interpretation of the published programmes, not awards or promises of results. Official sources are linked in each entry below.
1. Tantra School of Love — True Nature of Love
For couples drawn to a holistic journey together with deepened love, intimacy and connection.
True Nature of Love is a seven-day Foundation retreat combining meditation, breathwork, Tantra yoga, conscious movement, somatic exercises, and relational practices.
The retreats are led directly by the school’s founder, Omid Offer, whose approach draws on decades of meditation, spiritual practices and energy practices, alongside being an artist, an entrepreneur, a film director, partner, and father. He teaching brings warmth, grounded presence, and a deeply loving approach to the space, inviting participants to explore how these teachings can be embodied in everyday life.
Scheduled destinations include Thailand, Costa Rica, Belgium, and China.
With a holistic, heart-centred approach, the retreat invites couples to deepen their connection while nurturing their relationship with themselves. Through partner practices, guidance directly with our founder and co-facilitators, ritual evenings, and ecstatic dance, participants explore presence, intimacy, sensuality, and the balance of masculine and feminine energies. A central theme is the art of making love, bringing awareness, tenderness, and emotional connection into sexuality.
Over seven days, couples have space to meet each other with fresh eyes, express what often goes unspoken, and rediscover playfulness and attraction. The invitation is to grow both individually and together, carrying a renewed understanding of each other and practical ways to nurture their spark into everyday life.
The seven-day “True Nature of Love Retreat” is a perfect opportunity for couples to travel, to experience a profound transformative journey, and to explore a new way of connecting with a spark for life.
Explore True Nature of Love retreats.
2. Tantra Essence — Soulmate Retreat, Level 1
For couples drawn to an ongoing spiritual journey together.
Created by Ma Ananda Sarita, the Soulmate series offers a progression through seven retreats. Its Bali Level 1 programme includes partner meditations, communication, embodiment, ritual, and sacred sexuality. The advertised September 2027 edition names Modestas and Dieke as teachers.
The organiser explicitly says there is no partner exchange. It distinguishes group learning from intimate practices undertaken privately by each couple.
Explore Soulmate Level 1 in Bali.
3. The Making Love Retreat — Diana and Michael Richardson
For couples curious about a slower approach to sexual intimacy.
This week-long retreat in Switzerland teaches an approach associated with Diana Richardson’s Slow Sex work, emphasising awareness and presence rather than performance.
The organiser states that there is no partner swapping, nudity, or sex in the group room; intimate practice takes place privately. It also explicitly describes this particular programme as designed for male–female heterosexual couples.
Before booking: Check suitability and calculate the full cost: the published seminar fee and accommodation/full-board charges are separate.
Explore The Making Love Retreat.
4. The Tantric Couple — Private Retreats
For partners who want privacy and a programme shaped around their needs.
The Tantric Couple offers private experiences arranged after a conversation about the couple’s intentions. Its description includes facilitated sessions, yoga or qigong, and time to practise alone together.
Locations are agreed individually; the organiser mentions Amsterdam and arrangements around teaching travel.
Before booking: Confirm who will facilitate, the location, session hours, accommodation arrangements, and the full cost, including facilitator travel or accommodation where applicable. This is an enquiry-led option rather than a fixed upcoming group departure.
Explore private retreats with The Tantric Couple.
5. Earth Tantra — The Art of Loving
For couples seeking a gentle weekend introduction.
The Art of Loving in Colorado presents couples Tantra through appreciation, communication, breath, playfulness, and slowing down together. The programme also leaves time for the couple outside facilitated sessions.
The listed 30 October–1 November 2026 edition is marked sold out. Accommodation and meals are not included in the advertised tuition.
Before booking: Ask about the next edition and its current practical arrangements. Do not assume a place is available because the programme page remains online.
6. OzTantra — Ultimate Couples Getaway
For couples wanting flexible, individual guidance.
OzTantra’s Ultimate Couples Getaway combines a privately arranged break with sessions tailored to the partners’ interests. Its description covers communication, boundaries, emotional intelligence, and Tantric sexuality.
The organiser names the Byron Bay region and the Daylesford/Hepburn Springs/Ballarat area as possible settings. Couples organise travel, food, and accommodation separately.
Before booking: Discuss your goals with both facilitators and agree the location, teaching scope, number of sessions, fees, and follow-up support. This is a customised getaway rather than a standard all-inclusive residential retreat.
Explore OzTantra’s Ultimate Couples Getaway.
7. SummerHills — Private Tantra Retreat, Byron Bay
For beginners who prefer learning privately.
SummerHills advertises private couples accommodation packages in the Byron Bay hinterland, with personal Tantra instruction in the couple’s cabin. Its site describes the courses as suitable for complete beginners.
The published packages combine accommodation, individual sessions, and time to relax between practices.
Before booking: Confirm the instructor, current availability, package inclusions, currency, and total price. Ask what touch practices involve and how both partners can adapt or decline them.
Explore SummerHills’ private Tantra experiences.
8. Tantra Ritual — Sacred Union
For couples interested in communication, intentional touch, and shared ritual.
Sacred Union advertises a seven-day couples retreat in Tulum, Mexico, for 13–19 February 2027. Its curriculum includes listening practices, meditation, breathwork, sacred sexuality, and ritual, including a Temazcal ceremony.
The organiser states that previous Tantra experience is unnecessary and that exercises are invitations, with couples choosing what feels appropriate.
Before booking: Confirm facilitator backgrounds, the specific touch and nudity policies, total package costs, and the practical arrangements for ceremonies.
9. Temple of Bliss — Customised Tantra Retreats
For couples exploring a bodywork-oriented private experience.
Temple of Bliss advertises tailored day-long and longer experiences, including options in California. Its offering brings together Tantra yoga, ritual, and bodywork, with arrangements for couples as well as individuals.
The format differs from a week-long teaching programme with a continuing group.
Before booking: Establish exactly what bodywork means in the proposed experience: who gives and receives touch, clothing expectations, consent procedures, facilitator qualifications, and what the fee includes. Confirm the current venue and availability directly.
Explore Temple of Bliss retreats.
10. Sex Reimagined — Couples Tantra Retreat
For couples explicitly seeking intimate-touch and sexuality education.
Sex Reimagined advertises a three-day programme with Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown, with California booking options. Its content includes sensual massage, intimate anatomy, and erotic attunement.
The page states that group demonstrations are clothed and that private practices happen in the couple’s own quarters. Meals and accommodation are excluded.
Before booking: Confirm upcoming dates and venue details, and discuss the sexual content together. This is a more explicitly sexuality-focused option than a retreat primarily centred on meditation or emotional connection.
Explore Sex Reimagined’s couples retreat.
How to choose together
Begin with a conversation about what each of you hopes to experience. You may want uninterrupted time together, a shared spiritual practice, support with communication, or a new way to explore intimacy. Those intentions can lead to different choices.
Take time to explore two or three programmes’ websites together. Notice how each school describes its approach, philosophy, and practices. Do the words resonate with both of you? Does the experience reflect your values and the kind of connection you wish to nurture?
If a school offers a complimentary call before booking, use it to ask questions, discuss your hopes and boundaries, and get a sense of the people who will guide you. This conversation can help you both feel clearer about whether the programme is right for you.
Frequently asked questions
Do we need previous Tantra experience?
Several programmes in this guide explicitly welcome beginners. Check the entry requirements for the particular retreat and level you are considering.
Will we have to work with other partners?
Policies vary. A couples-only title does not answer every question about group interaction. Ask whether partner rotation occurs and whether remaining together is an option.
Do all Tantra retreats involve sexual practices?
The programmes in this guide differ substantially. Some focus on presence and relational connection; others teach sexual intimacy, including practices for private exploration. Read the curriculum and policies together.
How do we compare prices fairly?
Check whether the price is per person or per couple, and whether it includes tuition, lodging, meals, taxes, and transfers. A tuition-only weekend cannot be compared directly with an all-inclusive residential week.
Explore Tantra together with Tantra School of Love
If you feel drawn to our approach, we would love to help you find a suitable starting point. Explore our Conscious Couples introduction, Couples Weekend, or upcoming residential retreats.
Bring your questions about the experience, boundaries, and participating together. There is room to take your time and choose with care.
